|  Ubi tu Gaius, ibi ego Gaia Where you are, Gaius, there I, Gaia, will be | Matrimonium est institutum ad mutuun adjutorium et propagationem generis humani. Vir juvenis conjugium inturus, instructus sit vel opibus, vel arte vel scientia, quae sit de pane lucrando et sustentare familiam. Deinde eligit sibi puella nubilem, (aut viduam) quam adamat. Ubi tamen major ratio habenda virtutis et honestatis quam formoe aut dotis. Posthaec non clam futui eam sed procus apud patrem et matrem, vel tutores vel cognatos. Ea sibi desponsa, fit sponsus, et ipsa sponsa. Tandem fiunt nuptioe ubi copulantur datis manibus ultro citroque. Tum epulantur cum invitatis testibus. Abhinc dicuntur maritus et uxor. | Marriage is an institution for mutual help and propagation of humankind. A young man being to be married, should be either wealthy, or have a trade or education, that he can earn a living and to support a family. Then he elects for himself a nubile girl (or a widow) whom he loves. In this a greater value (ratio, calculation) has virtue and honesty than beauty or dowry. Afterwards he does not secretly (clam) make love to her but asks for her her father and mother or guardians or relatives. When she is engaged to him he becomes a fiance and she his fiancee. At last the wedding is made where they are joined giving hands one to another. Then they feast with the invited witnesses. After this they are called husband and wife. | |